Did you know?
The most natural thing.
Meeting people in the street is the most natural thing in the world. You are in reality. Yes the streets, buses, trains, shops are reality. That’s where the real world is. Nightclubs and dating sites are not reality, that’s not the real world.
It seems strange doesn’t it because we think of bars, clubs and dating sites as the acceptable places to meet people and not the streets.
Singles are everywhere.
There are over 12 million people in the UK aged between 20-35. About 1 in 3 are single or not in a serious relationship. When you do see someone you fancy during your daily commute there’s a 30% chance they’re looking for love too.
Better than internet dating.
The streets are like a massive dating site. You see the person you want to meet, have an instant chat and if you get on then you exchange information. If you didn’t get on then you say that it was nice meeting them and make an excuse to walk off. When you think about how much money is spent on internet dating it’s quite ridiculous.
Your secret weapon.
If you walk towards someone in the street going in the opposite direction and your eyes meet then you might look away and have an awkward moment. However if you say good morning as they walk past then the awkwardness instantly disappears. This applies anywhere. If you make eye contact with someone else in a shop, on a bus, on a train, or at a party then a simple greeting takes away the awkwardness. It is so obvious but why do we hardly ever do this?
Actions speak louder.
If you go up to a random stranger in the street and start a conversation then you are communicating so many positive things. Even if you’re nervous and don’t know what to say then just by your actions you are saying: I like meeting people, I’m not afraid to take risks, I go for what I want, I am confident and it’s worth getting to know me.
Assumptions are assumptions.
When we see strangers out in public we all make assumptions. It could be about their jobs, their financial status, their personality, their mood, what they'll think of us, etcetera. A lot of these assumptions are negative. Have you ever noticed what a pleasant surprise you get once you actually start talking to someone new?
A common myth.
If you walk up to a random stranger in the street and start a conversation then they will be annoyed and will walk off. Wrong. Nine out of ten times the person is pleased and flattered, especially if you seem friendly and fun. They are always polite. Even if the person is running late they will be happy to stop and talk for a few minutes. Only ten percent of the time will the person keep walking and ignore you. They never say anything nasty.
A strange fact.
Most singles won't talk to that hottie they see on their way to work, but they do feel comfortable chatting to the drunk average looking people in nightclubs, often settling for second best. It's quite rare for people to be approached in the street. They are always friendly, polite and usually quite impressed.
Make their day.
People adore flirting, especially if it’s unexpected; for example in the street. It’s a fun event in their day, it creates a fun memory, something to talk about with their friends. They’ll feel good, it’s a romantic gesture like in the movies. Even if the person has a boyfriend or girlfriend they usually love that you came up and spoke to them. You have to see it to believe it!